Biased? Isn’t everyone? [book review]

Earlier this year, the police brutally murdered George Floyd. Videos quickly circulated, showing a police officer kneeling on George’s neck for almost 9 minutes, while George repeatedly said, “I can’t breathe,” before dying of asphyxiation.

This is not the first police-related death, and it wasn’t the last. People continue to die at the hands of the police. How is it that men and women—sworn to protect and serve—are now considered by many to be the enemy? With so many people protesting the injustice of what happened to George Floyd and the riots that followed, my company’s CEO gave everyone a copy of Biased: Uncovering the Hidden Prejudice That Shapes What We See, Think, and Do by Jennifer L. Eberhardt.

I’ll be honest. This was not the book I would have picked. I hadn’t even heard of this book before. It was also absent from many suggested reading lists that popped up all over the internet during this time.

However, I did ultimately find this to be an informative, well-written, educational book. And while the title seems to indicate it’s generally about bias, it is more specifically about race-related bias.

“Our ideas about race are shaped by the stereotypes to which we are exposed on a daily basis. And one of the strongest stereotypes in American society associates blacks with criminality.”

Eberhardt presents her information set within the context of her work with the Oakland police department and her brief time teaching introductory social psychology to inmates at San Quentin. She mixes anecdotes from her work- and life-experiences with many eye-opening statistics such as the one in the following quote.

“Some five million children—roughly 7 percent of all children living in the United States—have a parent who is currently or was previously incarcerated, according to data from the National Survey of Children’s Health.”

Overall, Biased is a decent introduction to bias and how it often unconsciously impairs our ability to be fair-minded and free from stereotypes and racism. The main point she makes is that everyone has biases, everyone is affected by bias. The goal is to recognize, if we can, what’s causing our bias and to try to see the world without it.

This is a good book to read if you’re looking for something close to home. I’m from San Jose, so I found it interesting to read about Oakland, which is nearby. However, if you’re looking for a book about bias in general or more specific information on racism, the history of racism in the US, or on how to combat racism, that’s not what this book is.

“It’s implausible to believe that officers—or anyone else—can be immersed in an environment that repetitively exposes them to the categorical pairing of blacks with crime and not have that affect how they think, feel, or behave.”

I have three main critiques:

  1. The chapter dedicated to the “Unite the Right” march, which occurred near UVA in 2017, doesn’t feel completely relevant and seems a bit out of place.
  2. When introducing statistics about Airbnb and Nextdoor, I felt she went overboard explaining these companies’ concepts. On the flip side, she mentioned Uber once or twice with no explanation. 
  3. The author offers minimal to no solutions or suggestions for continued reading, learning, etc. 

“How do we know when we are being insensitive or unfair? How much of who we are and how we feel is dictated by things outside our awareness or control? How often are we really the tolerant, fair-minded person we want to be? And how can we learn to check ourselves and mute the negative impact that bias can have?”

Rating: 3.5 out of 5.

The Honest Enneagram – book review

This was book 65 of the year for me, and the book that completed my goodreads.com reading challenge. I think, actually, that I need to adjust that goal to be a little higher. As of this writing, I’m sitting at 66 books done for 2020.

As for The Honest Enneagram, this is my first book on the subject (and probably not the last — hello type 5 here!). At its core, the enneagram is a personality test (like Myers-Briggs). Answer a few questions, and get sorted into type categories. It’s a bit like the Sorting Hat from Harry Potter! I will probably do a whole post just on my thoughts on the enneagram, but for now, I’ll focus on this book.

First of all, I loved how the author breaks down each type into sections and discusses both the positives and negatives. She also does a great job with the quick summary of “just 3-4 things to keep in mind daily to be your best self.”

This is a great “let’s jump into the enneagram and learn about all the types” first book. However, it doesn’t delve into the history or evolution of the enneagram at all, and I’m super interested to learn more about that.

The book presents the material in a very nice, positive light. The author talks about how she dislikes some of the common language often used in enneagram types, giving lazy as an example. She has reframed these to statements such as “tired after doing so much for others all day” instead of lazy. I think this is setting a good example; Many of us are hurting ourselves with negative self-talk, and type descriptions using words like lazy reinforces that.

Case states the goal is not to overcome our type pattern. Your type is part of who you are, part of your core being. It’s not something to be changed or overcome. Learning about the enneagram is about being the best version of who you already are.

I listened to this on audible, and as an audiobook, I did find there were a few challenges. It can be hard to find specific content within an audiobook. A reference sheet would have been super useful. A simple PDF with a summary of the types and variants would suffice. It was really hard for me to keep a mental picture of all 9 types and their main characteristics and variants. The explanations of how your type pattern shifts during times of rest or stress were difficult to follow because of this. For example, during times of stress, type 4s go towards type 2. In order to understand this, I not only have to know about a type 4, but also a type 2.

I also really enjoyed the “bingo cards” for each type, but the full effect was missing in the audiobook presentation.

The one big negative for me that makes this a 3-star vs a 4-star book is the repetition. For each type, the author breaks down the type and her advice into the same sections. This is not inherently bad, but she reuses many of the same sentences for each of the 9 types. I would have preferred a fresh take on introducing the advice or really anything other than the repetition again and again (9 times).

Rating: 3 out of 5.

I received a free copy of this book from NetGalley, in exchange for a fair and honest review. This does not impact my opinion of the book or my review in any way.