To Sleep in a Sea of Stars

Book Cover - To Sleep in a Sea of Stars

To Sleep in a Sea of Stars is the latest novel by Christopher Paolini. In it, we meet Kira, our narrator, and main character.

Kira is a xenobiologist, stationed on a remote planet as part of a small crew. Their job? Getting the planet approved and ready to be colonized, and become one of the next human habitats. Something unexpected happens, and Kira loses her fiancé and all of her crewmates.

This is all pretty interesting, and I liked the world-building. However, the story is advancing at a snail’s pace. After listening to about 9.5 hours of the audiobook, we reach a point where Kira has uncovered some amazing information and possibly a mini-climax in the novel. I feel that this could potentially have been the end of one story arc, making this book into a trilogy. However, there are 23 more hours to go in the audiobook.

I realized at this point, I just didn’t care enough to invest that much more time listening. I can listen to several other books in that amount of time.

The writing is excellent and the narrator is great. I wanted to love this book. It’s been a while since I’ve read a really great space opera, and I had high hopes for this one. Ultimately, though, the story is moving at such a slow pace that it didn’t capture my attention enough to finish.

Rating: 2 out of 5.

Thanks to Macmillan Audio and Netgalley for a free copy in exchange for a fair and honest review.

The Social Dilemma

Do you ever wonder why social media is so addictive? Or think about how you’ve changed because of it? Ever look up from your phone and realize you’ve missed something important going on around you? Or lost track of time, and it’s hours later than you intended?

The Social Dilemma is a hybrid drama-documentary that sets out to answer some of these questions. A look inside the machine, from some of the minds that created it. 

The documentary part of the movie is fascinating and also downright horrifying. The film states quite bluntly, “If you are not paying for the product, you are the product.” And it goes even deeper than that. What’s for sale is not only your attention and eyeballs on the screen but also the ability to modify or shift your behavior.

One of the examples given is conspiracy theories. Given a small number of people who belong to conspiracy theory groups on social media, you can use those people to target thousands more and introduce or convince them of your conspiracy theory. The movie’s primary example is Pizzagate, which ended with a man firing a rifle into a pizza place because he believed it was a center of a child sex ring. This is just one example.

Are you not into conspiracy theories? That doesn’t protect you. False news spreads six times faster than the truth, and if it aligns with things you already believe to be true, or you trust the person who shared it, you are likely to believe it.

Now, the goal of social media is not false news. However, the goal is to make money. And how do they make money? By getting you to spend more time on social media, where you’ll view more ads, and then selling you to the highest bidder. There is no one looking out for what’s right or what’s best. When you receive a notification, a like, or get tagged in a photo, the purpose is to trigger dopamine in your brain center and get you back on the social media site. Ever wonder why the email that says you’re tagged in a picture doesn’t include the picture? Wouldn’t that be easier?

There were also a lot of scary statistics about teen depression and suicide. Looking back, I am so glad that social media didn’t exist when I was a teenager. High school is hard enough already, I can’t imagine adding in the weight of seeing others’ picture-perfect lives online, all day, every day.

Depicting social media’s AI and algorithms as people in a command center, the drama part of the movie is a bit silly. There is not a team of people influencing your social media news feed in realtime. However, there are millions of a/b tests running to find the best ways to maximize their ability to keep your attention and influence your behavior.

The dilemma, I suppose, is that even if you know social media is bad for you, you’re probably already addicted. And many of us feel that social media is keeping us connected, even if that’s so far from the truth as to be laughable.

At this time, I have not (yet) deleted my Facebook account. I did delete the app from my phone and review (and cull) the information in the ads preferences section.  

Is what they say in this movie 100% the truth? Probably not. But it’s still terrifying and fascinating at the same time, and definitely worth watching.

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Biased? Isn’t everyone? [book review]

Earlier this year, the police brutally murdered George Floyd. Videos quickly circulated, showing a police officer kneeling on George’s neck for almost 9 minutes, while George repeatedly said, “I can’t breathe,” before dying of asphyxiation.

This is not the first police-related death, and it wasn’t the last. People continue to die at the hands of the police. How is it that men and women—sworn to protect and serve—are now considered by many to be the enemy? With so many people protesting the injustice of what happened to George Floyd and the riots that followed, my company’s CEO gave everyone a copy of Biased: Uncovering the Hidden Prejudice That Shapes What We See, Think, and Do by Jennifer L. Eberhardt.

I’ll be honest. This was not the book I would have picked. I hadn’t even heard of this book before. It was also absent from many suggested reading lists that popped up all over the internet during this time.

However, I did ultimately find this to be an informative, well-written, educational book. And while the title seems to indicate it’s generally about bias, it is more specifically about race-related bias.

“Our ideas about race are shaped by the stereotypes to which we are exposed on a daily basis. And one of the strongest stereotypes in American society associates blacks with criminality.”

Eberhardt presents her information set within the context of her work with the Oakland police department and her brief time teaching introductory social psychology to inmates at San Quentin. She mixes anecdotes from her work- and life-experiences with many eye-opening statistics such as the one in the following quote.

“Some five million children—roughly 7 percent of all children living in the United States—have a parent who is currently or was previously incarcerated, according to data from the National Survey of Children’s Health.”

Overall, Biased is a decent introduction to bias and how it often unconsciously impairs our ability to be fair-minded and free from stereotypes and racism. The main point she makes is that everyone has biases, everyone is affected by bias. The goal is to recognize, if we can, what’s causing our bias and to try to see the world without it.

This is a good book to read if you’re looking for something close to home. I’m from San Jose, so I found it interesting to read about Oakland, which is nearby. However, if you’re looking for a book about bias in general or more specific information on racism, the history of racism in the US, or on how to combat racism, that’s not what this book is.

“It’s implausible to believe that officers—or anyone else—can be immersed in an environment that repetitively exposes them to the categorical pairing of blacks with crime and not have that affect how they think, feel, or behave.”

I have three main critiques:

  1. The chapter dedicated to the “Unite the Right” march, which occurred near UVA in 2017, doesn’t feel completely relevant and seems a bit out of place.
  2. When introducing statistics about Airbnb and Nextdoor, I felt she went overboard explaining these companies’ concepts. On the flip side, she mentioned Uber once or twice with no explanation. 
  3. The author offers minimal to no solutions or suggestions for continued reading, learning, etc. 

“How do we know when we are being insensitive or unfair? How much of who we are and how we feel is dictated by things outside our awareness or control? How often are we really the tolerant, fair-minded person we want to be? And how can we learn to check ourselves and mute the negative impact that bias can have?”

Rating: 3.5 out of 5.

Running Update

2020, the year we all stayed home and did nothing. Wait, nothing? There’s plenty to do at home: eat, drink, complete puzzles, watch tv…get fat. Even though the gyms are closed, there are a lot of online options for workouts. For some reason, I don’t find those very motivating most days, even the live zoom ones. And I miss running. Of course, here in California—with our current wildfire situation—running outside is not ideal due to the unhealthy air quality.

I’m fortunate enough to have a treadmill, so I’ve been taking advantage recently. I didn’t run at all in 2018 or 2019, due to various injuries. Now, I’m taking it slow and building up a solid running base before attempting longer and faster runs.

I will probably always be a slow runner, and that’s fine. What’s important to me now is staying healthy and avoiding injuries. With the quarantine, I’m no longer going to the office, and thus no standing desk. Sitting all the time has been proven to be bad for your health, so this is one way I’m attempting to compensate.

My most immediate goal is to run 5k and then 10k. Hopefully, by the end of the year. Does anyone want to join me in training for a 10k?

Virtual race 10k medal for my mom, if she joins me!